Growing more like Jesus every day should be a pursuit for every believer but this pursuit isn’t always easy. With the responsibilities of life, the tyranny of the urgent, and perhaps even a lack of how-to, a Christ-follower could remain…
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Proverbs for Couples: Do You Mock or Embrace God’s Advice on Marriage?
I recently read an article on line where an unmarried couple stated they were Christians but chose to live together because they wanted to get to know one another. They said their reason for doing so was because God would…
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Proverbs for Couples: How to Create an Emotionally Safe Place for Communication (Part 3)
The main ingredient for great communication in marriage is the ability to be vulnerable with one another. But it’s hard to remain vulnerable once your spouse has hurt you. I know I won’t be quick to share my heart with…
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Proverbs for Couples: How to Resolve Conflict in Marriage
Every couple will at some point experience conflict in their relationship. Having a set of guidelines from a biblical perspective has been the key for Eric and me. Knowing how to act and react when we disagree with the other person…
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Proverbs for Couples Series: How to Communicate in Marriage (Part 1)
Eric and I didn’t always communicate well with one another. In our early years, I was a jumbled mess of emotions not fully aware of what I was feeling, what was wrong, and what or how to fix the problem….
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Is It Biblically Okay to Remarry After Divorce?
Divorce for the Christian can be a complicated thing. Is divorce ever allowed? Is it okay to remarry? Let’s turn to the Bible for answers on this sensitive topic. Click below to listen. What the Bible has to say about…
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When You’re Putting Forth All the Effort in the Marriage
Do you ever feel like you’re putting forth more effort into your marriage than your husband? Perhaps you feel you care more about your relationship than he does and you wonder what you can do to make him care? I know…
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When You Struggle to Have Sex Because You’re Insecure with Your Outer Appearance
The idea of showing my body to my man when I’m insecure with my outer appearance is never on the top of my to-do list. And I’m insecure with my outer appearance every day. But, I don’t believe I’m the only…
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How to Deal with a Controlling Husband
No wife wants to be controlled by her husband because when this happens, she’ll feel more like his child rather than his wife. This is a situation one woman is dealing with in her marriage. Here’s her story… Dear Jolene My…
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One Sure Fire Way to Connect with Your Husband
What was it about your man that made you want to marry him? Was it the way he treated you? Was it his commitment to following Christ? Or the companionship the two of you shared? The sparks? Or perhaps the…
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When Mother’s Day Hurts
I know not every woman is looking forward to Mother’s Day because whose life really depicts what’s written on those Hallmark cards? Do you feel unappreciated by your family? Are you suffering silently? Are strained relationships the norm? Perhaps you…
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Keeping Unity in Your Marriage when the In-Laws Have Caused Division
Is there a parent or in-law in your life who has expressed their displeasure in either you or your spouse? Did someone spew out venomous words you can’t forget? Has their behavior created a wedge between you and them or…
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The Kind of Man I Would Not Marry
It’s always hard for me to write to single women when the majority of those who come to my site are married. But, I receive so many emails from singles looking for guidance in their dating relationships. At the core…
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What’s a Wife to Do When Her Husband Blames Her for All Their Problems?
How convenient for a husband to place all his marital problems on his wife’s shoulders. Perhaps if he took responsibility for his own sin and made an effort to lead and love his wife the way scriptures command him to,…
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10 Ways a Wife Can Deal with Her Fears Regarding Finances
Many wives can relate to having financial pressures in marriage, after all, money is one of the top 3 issues that couples fight over. So, if you put a woman in a marriage and then not have enough funds to…
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How to Restore Your Marriage After You’ve Been a Horrible Wife
I sat at my desk one afternoon listening to the voice messages wives have left me asking for biblical guidance about their marriages. After I had listened to each story, my eyes welled up with tears as I heard their disappointment and…
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Becoming Stable When Your World Feels Unstable
The year was 2009, and I was standing at the kitchen counter, preparing dinner, as usual when my man and I were discussing our current financial dilemma. Our problem of the day? We couldn’t afford to pay our rent. It wasn’t…
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