How Do I Trust Him Again?

When a husband breaks the trust in a marriage, how do you trust him again?  After all, for a healthy and thriving marriage, trust is vital!

Dear Jolene,

Today I caught my husband of 20 years at a strip club- hands on and all during a lap dance from a girl young enough to be our daughter.

I feel stunned. Angry. Saddened. Numb. Disappointed.  He claims it’s all because of all the stress he has at work and how he feels his body is giving up on him.  His job is an extremely physically demanding job. I was so stunned I couldn’t even say anything.

How do I trust him again?

Signed,
Distraught and heartbroken

Click below to hear my response.

Scripture references for this podcast:

• Psalm 9:10 And those who know Your name will put their trust in You; For You, LORD, have not forsaken those who seek You.
• Psalm 18:2 The LORD is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
• Psalm 18:30 As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the LORD is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.

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Live a poured out life for Christ,

Jolene Engle