1. Perfectly timed but what if your husband bottles up and just won’t talk about this with you??
    I have such a self loathing for myself because of my husband looking at other women and all he says in response to my vulnerability is “you go to the deepest darkest place and make yourself feel like crap!”
    How do I conquer this? It drives me mad!!

    1. Hi Noni,
      Well, every wife (and husband) need to own their issues, whether it’s their insecurities or sin. Then we need to move forward and live in such a way where we consider each other’s feelings.

  2. I really enjoyed reading this article and I wanted to add that it isn’t just a live person that he may be attracted to but pornography can definitely cause them to lust. I know that we must check our jealousy at the door and I see how jealousy can affect our relationship, but that made me think: If our God is a jealous God, then why can’t we be jealous that our husband is devoting his time and effort meant for his wife? Thank you for your time.

  3. I’m on the verge of giving up because my husband having his second affair on the same woman this year. I don’t know what to do. My mom and my loved ones allows me to separate our lives for good. The saddest part is… I still love him that no matter what happen I still save our marriage. But what would I do if his living with her in one roof? We have two daughters. I am fighting. But I didn’t see his worth. He ignore me. Unfriend me. The worse part is I asked him if he still loves me…but I didn’t hear the most precious answer… thats the last time we talk. Now we are a month separated, I am living with my mom. Pain, struggling, loving him and letting him go is the only option to move on for now.

  4. Hi,
    This is the first time I am writing in a place like this..where women share what they are going through. I got married to a guy I was in a relationship with for 10 years.we somehow convinced our parents for our wedding I got married to him against my parents will. It has been almost 10 months that we are married but I am staying with my parents since the last 4 months. I got to know that he was cheating on me after 3 months of our marriage when i saw him messaging her.he stated that he met this girl 2 months before the wedding and said he was sorry that he continued entertaining her. He said he did it coz he felt I was never there for him. A month later I got to know that he was involved with another women,this time his cousin who is already married. I just couldn’t take it anymore and left him. We spoke with his pastor and family. He is just not talking to me since the last one month.no calls no mags.nothing at all. What do I do.

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