marital advice

Wives of the Bible by Jolene Engle

What the Word of God Can Teach Us About Marriage

Where do you turn for marital guidance?  Tabloids at the checkout stands?  Self-help books?  Friends and family that aren’t walking with the Lord?  How about the Word of God, the source of where the institution of marriage was created in the first place.  Yep, the Bible is filled with answers to all of our marital…
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3 Things I Do in My Marriage to Combat Bitterness

I recently had a reader contact me asking if I could address the bitterness that’s growing in her heart towards her husband and what can she do about it.  Well, I don’t believe she’s alone in these feelings because I think it’s pretty common among wives.  In fact, I believe there are so many wives…
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Living in a Difficult Marriage

Are you living in a downright difficult marriage?  Perhaps your husband is unloving, uncaring, non-responsive and cruel towards you?  Some of these husbands even claim to be Believers, men who have made a decision to give their hearts to the Lord, yet, something isn’t right about their lives.  There seems to be no evidence of…
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Learning to Trust Your Husband

Source Trust in marriage can be broken so easily. Whether a husband has turned to pornography, embraced a path of alcoholism, computer gaming, or what-have-you, it’s hard for a wife to continue to trust her man once he’s chosen to live a life where he’s only seeking to satisfy his flesh. What’s a wife to…
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When You Don’t See Eye to Eye with Your Husband

In marriage, it’s very common to not see eye to eye with your husband on every issue that’s presented in your life, even if both of you are Believers.  This is the case for this one newlywed wife. Here’s her story… Dear Jolene, My husband just told me yesterday that he wants us to take…
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When to Set Boundaries in Your Marriage

Boundaries. EVERY marriage needs them. I had a young wife write in recently seeking some counsel regarding her marriage.  What she needed was to establish boundaries from the negative influence from her friends and family. Here’s her story… Dear Jolene, I was 20 and my husband was 25 when we married. Many people think that…
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Walking in God’s Strength and Not My Own

Well, you may have noticed that I didn’t take much time away from blogging last month like I had originally planned. 🙂  I told you I needed to be away from here for a couple of reasons.  One being that I had a speaking engagement I needed to prepare for and the other reason was…
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What does the bible say about abuse in marriage?

What Does the Bible Say About Abuse in Marriage?

Since I’m in the midst of writing my series on When a Husband Doesn’t Love His Wife with Christ-Like Love, I felt that now would be a fitting time to answer this reader’s question. Dear Jolene, I attended a church many years ago that taught some things I still wrestle with: I know God frowns…
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When the Roles are Reversed in a Godly Marriage (Part 2)

If you missed Part 1 of this post, you’ll want to take the time to read my story so you’ll know where I’m coming from. Today I’m discussing some how-to’s regarding this sensitive topic. So what can you do when the roles are reversed in your marriage? Talk with your man.  Share your heart with him.…
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10 Ways to Encourage Your Husband’s Leadership (Part 2)

In Part 1 of this post I shared with you my story of ‘why’ I chose the path of nurturing my husband, and today I’m giving you 10 How-to’s so you can help your man blossom as a leader. 10 Ways to Encourage Your Husband’s Leadership A man’s ego is extremely fragile so handle it with care.…
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