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When You Don’t Want to Be a Godly Wife

Have you ever gotten to the point in your life where you just don’t want to be a Godly wife (or a woman, mom, friend, etc.?) Maybe you’re just done.  You are ready to run and you want to turn in your wifey pinkslip because you’re too tired, hurt, and broken to continue. Perhaps you’re running…
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Top 10 Things a Wise Woman Should Pursue

Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you’ve tried to set priorities in your life, your soul still feels undernourished and unsettled?  Yeah, me too. I kept asking the Lord what was it that I was missing. How come I couldn’t get grounded and organized? Why couldn’t I reach a point of order…
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The Grace Challenge

I’ve been thinking an awful lot about God’s grace lately and how much I lack in extending it to others.  I can’t help but process how do I, as a daughter of the Most High God, reflect His grace toward others?  I get convicted just thinking about how I’m not gracious enough! Then I think…
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Living Out the Gospel in Our Relationships

The Gospel message is a relational message.  While on earth, Jesus walked with others, thus, relationships were important to Him and therefore, they should be important to us. John 1:14 says: And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,…
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The #1 Thing Every Woman Needs

Well, of course, every woman needs chocolate, right?  Or coffee? Maybe if I wrote out a list of 25 things, then chocolate and coffee would definitely make that list!  But today I’m sharing the one particular thing that your soul can’t live without. No matter the age or stage of life, every woman needs this one thing.  It’s a simple…
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Enjoying Your Relationship with Jesus Christ

Have you ever felt overwhelmed in your pursuit of growing into a Godly woman?  Or maybe you’ve experienced defeat or been deflated in your attempts to becoming a woman of virtue?  Yeah, I’ve been there too. A reader wrote in sharing this same struggle.  Here’s her story… Dear Jolene I´m a 21 years old woman…
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5 Heartaches a Woman Experiences (and the remedies)

Pain.  Afflictions.  Betrayal.  Disease.  Disaster.  The wringing of our hands.  Our anxious thoughts.  A lost way. Can you relate to any of this?  I know I can.  In fact, I feel like I’m constantly wearing these heartaches.  And this got me to thinking about them and all of the pain and suffering that we endure.…
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What I’d Say to You if We Chatted in Real Life

When I read these verses, I immediately think of you… I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine making request for you all with joy, for your fellowship in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work…
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How to Create a Low-Cost to No-Cost Christmas

Since I wrote my recent post on, How to Have the Best Christmas Ever, it kinda struck a chord for many women.  I’m guessing my sisters’ in Christ felt it was okay to share their hurts and fears. And let me just say for the record…IT IS OKAY TO SHARE YOUR HEARTACHE AND PAIN!   That’s what…
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Jolene Engle

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