The marriage bed can be a complicated place, especially when adultery has taken place.  But even if there is no adultery, sex could be painful whether it’s for physical reasons or emotional ones.  If you have none of these issues affecting your marriage bed, just the fact that your marriage and sex life is no longer new could cause your intimacy to wane.  One wife is struggling with these issues in her marriage.  Here’s her story…

Dear Jolene,

I don’t have chemistry with my husband because of his affair.  The girl is still messaging him.  He wants me to get involved with other men to remove my fear of sex. ( I suffer pain during sex). I had done it before and it did not feel good for me at all. Now I’m a Christian. Our sex life is rock bottom.  I need help.  I don’t know what to do.  At times I feel disgusted.

So, what’s a girl to do?

Click below to hear my response.

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Scripture reference:

He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins.  Ephesians 1:7

Related posts:

20 Reasons Why a Wife Doesn’t Want to Have Sex

9 Ways to Keep the Spark Lit in the Bedroom

How to Overcome Past Sexual Sins 

When Intimacy is Physically Painful

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